Surat is currently mourning the loss of two young lives as the Gujarat Board (GSEB) examinations get underway. In two separate but equally tragic incidents, Class 12 students one from the Science stream and another from General allegedly died by suicide.These incidents have once again ignited a painful but necessary conversation: Are our children collapsing under the weight of academic expectations?The Two TragediesThe first incident involved a young girl from the Science stream. Known to be a bright student, she was reportedly under immense stress regarding her performance in the ongoing boards. Shortly after, news broke of a second student from the General stream taking a similar extreme step.Local authorities and school boards are devastated. While the police are currently investigating the specific circumstances behind each case, the common thread appears to be the overwhelming "fear of failure" that haunts students during exam season.Why the Pressure is PeakingClass 12 is often viewed as the "ultimate crossroads" in an Indian student's life.The "Do-or-Die" Mindset: For many, these marks aren't just numbers; they are seen as the only ticket to a prestigious college or a stable career.Societal Comparison: Constant comparison with peers and the fear of disappointing parents can create a suffocating environment for a teenager.The Post-Pandemic Gap: Educators note that students are still finding it difficult to cope with the rigorous offline exam format after years of disrupted learning.A Plea to Parents and EducatorsWhile the government has set up helplines (like the 'Jeevan Aastha' helpline in Gujarat), experts believe the real change must start at home.Marks Aren't Everything: No exam is worth a life. Success in life is a marathon, not a 3-hour test.Watch for the Signs: If a child becomes unusually quiet, stops eating, or expresses extreme hopelessness, it’s time to step in—not with more books, but with a hug and a listening ear.Professional Help: There is no shame in seeking a counselor during these high-stress months.Our ThoughtsAs we report this, our hearts go out to the families in Surat. This isn't just a "news story"—it’s a wake-up call for our entire education system and society. We need to tell our children, louder than ever: “You are enough, regardless of your mark sheet.”
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